I have to admit that this is a tough barrier and I'm gonna give her another go with you because I like talking with you and this maybe the statement that allows us to cross a valuable bridge together.
I would love to learn some magical way to communicate this but I think it just takes mutual respect and a willingness to befriend and understand someone personally but I suppose even that isn't a guarantee.
Okay where am I going with this?
Your response above truly reveals where the communication can be healed even between two different people like us.
Your list above are not statements that state your worldview. They may reflect and even give hints as to what your worldview is but they are conclusions not methods. There is something in your thinking that promotes your conclusions.
Give her think and see if what I said makes sense.
All of those beliefs are rooted in a respect for my fellow man, and the willingness to treat other people the way I would like to be treated myself. I'll sleep on it and give it some proper thought though.